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Welcome to #Mysterys-Of-Boys!!

We are a group that specializes in romance art and stories. We also will specialize in answering question girls might have about boys (does he like me, how do I get him to notice me, etc.) This is a great place to get those questions answered, so don't be afraid to ask.

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Romance art-related and answering girls’ questions on boys. As the group gains more members, you will be able to send out a group note; one of the admins will answer the best we can. At the end of the month, the best question will be posted in the blog.

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by ~Eliza-Earl, Mar 26, 2012, 5:48:59 PM
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Hello everyone,

Amazing submittions guys. Keep up the good work. It has been really interesting aswering all your guy's questions so feel free to ask more.

ummmmmmm.........

Yah, basicly keep up the good work. I've been kind of busy school wise so haven't been very involved lately..... srry about that, anyways later.

For all sad words of tongue and pen, the saddest are these, 'It might have been.'
John Greenleaf Whittier

A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous.
Ingrid Bergman

"I don't pretend to know what love is for everyone, but I can tell you what it is for me; love is knowing all about someone, and still wanting to be with them more than any other person, love is trusting them enough to tell them everything about yourself, including the things you might be ashamed of, love is feeling comfortable and safe with someone, but still getting weak knees when they walk into a room and smile at you." **This is as close to a definition of true love as I've ever found.

"Love is like an earthquake-unpredictable, a little scary, but when the hard part is over you realize how lucky you truly are."

An archeologist is the best husband any woman can have; the older she gets, the more interested he is in her.
-- Agatha Christie

The four most important words in any marriage..."I'll do the dishes."
-- Anonymous

"You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams."
― Dr. Seuss

"We're all a little weird. And life is weird. And when we find someone
whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into
mutually satisfying weirdness—and call it love—true love."

I climbed up the door and opened the stairs,
Said my pajamas and put on my prayers,
Then I turned off the bed and crawled into the light
All because you kissed me goodnight!
~Author Unknown

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I'm not going to say...I'm not going to say

That I love you.

I've decided-

I've said it too many times

About crushes,

About people

Who I didn't really know.

So I won't say that I love you.

But I will admit

That you are...

Different

From the others.

(They didn't ever look at me.

They didn't ever speak to me.

They didn't even notice me,

Until they caught me staring.

But you...)

I'm not going to say

That I love you.

We've never even had

A real conversation.

But I will admit

That you are...

Different

From the others.

(I told all of my friends

And so many others

I practically shouted it, then

For the world to hear)

I'm not going to say

ThatI'm not going to say... by ~fireheart613

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Dear ...Dear You
Dear Words,

Thank You so much. You are an extraordinary friend who does an outstanding job in healing the wounds of every broken-pieced, depression-suffering and heart-lost teenager.

Angry? I curse using you.
Happy? I get high using you.
Fatigue? I whine using you.
Sad? I cry screaming you.

You make the best of me. You describe me at my worst, at my best. You bring out the lively emotions from my dead-looking, stinking-cold heart. You are able to twist, turn and portray the most powerful messages ever. Through poems, spoken words, and literature; you scream when tears have gone dry, you rise from the dead and stand up when injustiDear ... by ~littlenikita

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::Unbalanced:: It's been a while since I have felt like this—so confused, contemptuous and afraid. Not really wanting it but wanting it. Not really showing it but everyone knows. It came from a small spark into a big flame. Passing each other in the hall way; maybe a wave, smile, nod or small talk. It's been the same for the past three years. Nothing's changed, and I don't know why I'm so bothered by it. But is change a bad thing? To what extent would change become evil?

The other day I cried again for him. It was rather silly, since the next day when I woke up I hardly remembered why I did. This is perhaps the first time in a few months, an::Unbalanced:: by ~Sakura2Cutie

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Lyrics:: Let's End it Now (Thai)Verse 1

I got hurt for so long,
Tell me how long it'll last?
Why hasn't my heart gotten used to this pain so bad?
Feel so hurt from every look, from what I hear,
Not a day when it's suppose to be over.
I want to have a day when this pain will finally end,
I don't want my heart to hurt and hurt again,
Shouldn't it be over since I've nothing to give,
Loving for nothing but regret...

Chorus

My heart cannot stand it,
It' can't carry more than,
Instead of waiting I will choose to walk away.
Got hurt hundreds of times,
But why does it hurt the most this once?
The suffering's too long... let's just end it now.

Verse 2

I want to havLyrics:: Let's End it Now (Thai) by ~Sakura2Cutie

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Day 5 NaPoWriMo Day 1 of BreakupLove sucks,
really you do,
always lying to me,
your words aren't sincere you're untrue,
f*** you

k.s. 4/5/13Day 5 NaPoWriMo Day 1 of Breakup by ~kelleystephens20

::Why Are You So Mean?::Can’t you see?
The reflection in my eyes,
Which represents my voice,
Saying how precious you are.
You know it,
But you act like you don’t care,
Like I’m worthless,
And hurt my heart with your words.
Please,
Whether you love me or not,
Can you at least behave better on me?

Why are you so mean?
Can’t you please,
Just once feel my heart?
I never hoped for anything,
I just want to love you secretly.
Why are you so mean?
Just loving you,
And it’s okay if you don’t love me.
I never want you to care about me,
But please,
Just don’t hurt my heart like this.

Do you know,
That your words are powerful and pain::Why Are You So Mean?:: by ~Sakura2Cutie

AfterglowSun glow in my skin
With whispered letters that crawl
Off my tongue and into the pool of your
Lingering thoughts that dwindle into a
Mesmerizing glimmer that is your mind

[I] Your inquisitions are not mine.

When light reflects along your canvas
Two mirrors:
They swell up with honeysuckle, lukewarm drops
That fall from your face; from I to you
The amber that falls from your lips are
The golden wishes that never came true.

[II] She was the star that broke down.

Night time now scatters and mixes its depth
With its own light--its shadow and little glow

I can see things clearly now;
Within my own reflection lie the bare bones
With a red stAfterglow by ~BlacK-Kat9

Our WallSometimes I look at the wall
I see pictures of old
Poems in words
Drawings of thoughts
I see feelings in ink
Smiles glowing in sync
Now washing away

Now I look at the window
I look at you
I look at me
I look in the mirror
Inside my being

Was it my fault?
Was it my doing?
Why are we over?
What did we miss?

I look into water
Look through the fire
Feel through the wind
Dig deep into earth
I seek for a clue
A glimpse or a hint
I look for the reasons
Of our present being

Then a tiny voice creeps up my ear
It wasn't your fault it says.
No, it wasn't me.
It was you.
You let me go
You left me aside
You took up new faces
Our Wall by *AztecTemplar

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Paperman 1 George stood silently at the train station, firmly holding onto his folder of papers so that none of them would fly away with the passing trains. He had the same bored expression on that he had every day of his life. The truth was, he hated his job. His parents had wanted him to be a successful business man for as long as he could remember, and being the obedient son he was, George followed his parents’ wishes. Really, all George wanted to do was be an English teacher.

As the next train passed by George clung tighter to his folder and let out a small sigh. He was tiered, and all he wanted to do was get out of this rut he was in. In tPaperman 1 by ~Bobby-Green

::A Little Feeling:: "Are you okay?" He asked.
"Yea, I'm fine." She replied, which was a lie in a sense, yet Camilla stroked her long dark hair and shrugged, making it seem not so obvious for the person in front of her.
Lachlan's thoughtful blue eyes looked away as he continued to eat his lunch, seemingly convinced. "You know, that's what you always say when you're mad at me."
"Is it?" She stared at him, but he didn't look back. "But I'm not, really."
After a few moment of silence, he grabbed his bag and stood up. "I'm gonna go now."
She watched him take a step then looked down, straight hair falling over her face. "Okay, see ya::A Little Feeling:: by ~Sakura2Cutie

One Thing"It's pointless!" I exasperate as I reach my favorite bench at school. My best friend Dallas peers from the pages of his book as I slump down in the seat next to him. He rolls his eyes at me as he places his book down on his lap.

"Nate, you're over thinking it. All you have to do is go up and say 'Hi I'm Nathan'". He tries to imitate my voice and he ends up sounding like a dyeing squirrel.

I punch his shoulder and say, "Come on dude I don't sound like that. Besides you only say that because you have it made. You're blond, you have blue eyes. You're way stronger than me you're brave-"

He cuts me off and laughs, "Okay stop listing my traits,One Thing by ~ElizaBob

(HPNG T+V) The First Good-ByeVictoire Weasly clung tightly to her mother. The whole Weasly and Potter clan were standing at Kings Cross to see elven year old Teddy Lupin off. Victoire could not remember anything without Teddy in the memory. To be truthful Teddy and Victoire had been around each other since the day she was born. She just couldn't take being ripped apart from her best friend. So, she put it off by hiding behind her mother. Finally, she looked up at her mother and said, "Mommy," Fluer looked down at her nine year old daughter, "Why can't I go with Teddy?"

Fluer smiled at her daughter and said, " You can go with him in two more years . But, for now I think (HPNG T+V) The First Good-Bye by ~ElizaBob

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Competition: 1It was in fifth grade when Daniel met Crystal. He remembered very clearly she had a flowery sundress and black combat boots on. He remembered that her caramel hair was pulled back into two high pig tails and even though her hair was put up it still spilled over her shoulders. She was ten at the time, he was eleven. It was two weeks before summer vacation that she moved and started school.

For the first week she was there she was shrouded in mystery. All the girls found her to be, rather odd. They didn’t understand why she wore dresses every day or why she didn’t talk to any of them. She barely talked to the teacher for that matteCompetition: 1 by ~Bobby-Green

Hidden MessageComing here all you see is hate. The world is cruel and I know too. You have to understand I'm not crazy, I just see the good in life. So, with friends by my side you must understand the world I see is full of love. Why don't you see it too?

Here you see the world, you understand. I'm crazy; just see the friends by my side. I see love. Why don't you?

You see, you understand. I'm crazy, I see love? Why you?

You understand crazy, I love you.

Understand I love you.

I love you

Love

***

Why me?Hidden Message by ~ElizaBob

You and Me Against the WorldI'll be nineteen and he'll be twenty-one. He'll be made of scars and half-truths, and I'm sewn together by unfinished stories and abandoned inspiration. They'll say it's wrong because love can't bloom from a broken past. But their warnings will fall on deaf ears because you'll be staring into my eyes in a way that whispers, "It's you and me against the world." So I'll take your hand, our fingers and destinies intertwining to create a whole new adventure.

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The first months will be spent in a cramped apartment, bills and heated arguments piled up to the ceiling. I'll cry some nights because you're never hYou and Me Against the World by ~kjod5

Love Letter 2So I'm kind of counting on the fact that you never check your e-mail when I send you this. If somehow you do get this I will probably die of embarrassment. Not that I'm embarrassed that I like you or anything. Of all the people I could have a crush on in this school, you are probably the best candidate for the type of person I'm looking for. I just don't want to sound to sappy and idiotic. I don't like feeling the way I do. I hate that I like you actually. I pride myself on control and I don't like submitting to anyone else. But I find myself doing just that with you. And quite frankly it scares me. I hate feeling lost. I hate feeling like I Love Letter 2 by ~PuffMonsta

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Romance art-related and answering girls’ and guys romance/ relashionship questions. As the group gains more members, you will be able to send out a group note; one of the admins will answer the best we can. At the end of the month, the best question will be posted in the blog.

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~kelleystephens20 Apr 2, 2013

Thanks so much for making me your newest contributor!

This is my first group I am excited!

~Senator1Zeth Apr 22, 2012 Hobbyist General Artist

I'm sorta an interesting person. Most of my friends are guys, but I have some female friends too. I'm somewhat of a people magnet. I've also attracted a number of guys but I hate hurting people so my whole life, even though I attract most guys pretty well I have always avoided relationships. But now I'm sorta worried that I won't know how things will work out when I finally find a guy that really interests me and that sorta worries me. and a lot of the time I don't know exactly how to react which seems weird because I have a lot of cool guy friends, but no idea how to run an actual relationship

any advice or suggestions for me?

~Eliza-Earl May 22, 2012

I wouldn't worry about it to much until you are ready to have a relashionship. Also there is no right way to "run" a relashionship. It is diffrent for each couple.

I have a ton of guy friends like you don't worry about it. Things will work out.

~Senator1Zeth May 23, 2012 Hobbyist General Artist

cool, thank you.

~RoxanneVL May 6, 2012 Hobbyist Writer

Please excuse the delayed reply.
I have a very similar situation to you actually. Here are a few things to consider:
1. Next time someone asks you out, don't be afraid to say yes, because the worst thing that can happen is that you break up, and instead of worrying about the bad, treasure the good. It will probably be the scariest (and most awesome) thing that you've ever done, but you won't regret it.
2. Practice makes perfect. But:
3. Remember that romantic relationships can be very similar to friendships. The only difference (in my opinion) is the physical element. If you don't feel ready for a relationship, then don't force yourself into one.
4. And finally, to succeed, you must fail a few times. If someone doesn't like you because you've made a mistake, then they weren't worth it to begin with.

~Senator1Zeth May 6, 2012 Hobbyist General Artist

thank you ^^

~DWPwns Mar 26, 2012

Well, there's this boy in my class and he and I are really alike. I have a crush on him and I have a small suspicion that he likes me back since whenever he makes jokes in class he looks at me and likes to talk to me sometimes. But then there's this other girl who he probably likes even more and the two are often talking. She likes him back, too. I want to know if its worth it and what to do.

~RoxanneVL Apr 1, 2012 Hobbyist Writer

I would advise to try and talk to him more, and try texting or IMing him. The only way to find out is to get close to him and become his friend!

~DWPwns Apr 2, 2012

Ok thanks!

~Eliza-Earl Mar 27, 2012

Ok.
Let me just say one thing. A guy talking to you and joking dosn't always mean he likes you in that way. But it could just as well mean that he does like you. It really depends on the guy. My point is, juse because he talks to her more dosn't mean he likes her. Chances are yes she likes him, but he thks of her as a friend and a friend only. (unfotunatly guys don't understand that when we become really close friends with them we are often looking to go to the next step (if the realized this i wouldn't be single

) but anyways if you like him then go for it. Nothing is going to change if you don't do somthing. And really the worst thing that can happen is you guys have a week of awakward silence before everything goes back to normal. (That week is hard but after it's over everything goes back to normal (i speak from expierence))So i guess, follow your gut.

~DWPwns Mar 31, 2012

Lol thx for your advice

~Zoroarksillusion Mar 18, 2012 Student General Artist

I have an... interesting situation...
Most people at my school know me for liking anime, and sometimes liking boys from anime. That's not always true and I'm afraid it's scaring boys away from me. And when I am around guys, I can't think about anything to say because I'm usually thinking about anime. I just don't know what to do around guys or how to make them like me. Does anyone have some kind of advice?!

~Eliza-Earl Mar 23, 2012

Ah,
Luckily for me your answer is actually pretty simple. Be yourself. If your intersted in Anime great, talk about it. Alittle any ways. Be sure to listen and mabey you can talk to guys about other things too,. *cough cough hunget games* or sports or somthing else. Likeing anime isn't a bad thing. BE yourself and you'll find a guy who is good for you. if you have to change yourself to get a guy you probobly won't end up liking him anyways

*AztecTemplar Mar 23, 2012 Student General Artist

Since Anime is such a vital part of who you are, I'd suggest you look for guys that like anime.
You'd be surprised how many guys actually like anime, even the cutsey ones. Try to make conversation regarding some popular anime some guys should know about (thinking back a couple years, theres few ppl who didnt know Inuyasha or Naruto). You should be able to get a couple responses that will let you know whos into it and who isnt.

The flipside of that advice would be to get out of your comfort zone and start talkin about things guys in your school like that you sort of like. Say, Video Games or cars or sports? Try to find something you kinda like and talk about it.

Also, understand this: guys arent being scared by you liking anime. Liking anime is not a turn off.
Alot of guys actually like girls liking it.

If you talk about your likes and anime, guys will pay attention to you because either A) you like something they like (Anime). or B) you are talking about something they dont know and thus are interested (guys are curious too). Try to be yourself, just don't seclude yourself or get into a shell because you think they dont like anime.
Prepare a bit, then just go out there and talk about your interests. Finding a guy that shares or kinda shares what you like will make your relationship either friendly or dating a better experience

~RoxanneVL Mar 20, 2012 Hobbyist Writer

Join (or start) an anime club! That way, you can meet guys who have the same passion as you, and you can bond over it.

~KKBossa Mar 10, 2012 Hobbyist General Artist

I met this guy a few months back. Now I'm not a very talkative person and I absolutely hate talking to ppl I don't know well. So I have no idea why I talked so easy to this guy. He's so sweet and nice to me and we talk almost every day now. A few weeks back I realized something.

Every time I saw him I felt like skipping with happiness. Every time he left I wanted to cry. I thought about him all the time. Now I'm sure I'm in love with him and I'm scared because it's the first time I've felt so strongly about anyone.

Sometimes I think he likes me back because the other day I joked around saying support was his middle name and he joked around saying his other names were incredible, awesome and stuff like that. I said mine would be something like sarcasm and irony and he replied that I'd missed a few and then said cute, cool, kind, funny and good-listener. I still smile when I think about it. He always flirts a little but that was probably the most upfront thing he's said.

He's so perfect though and I don't see how he could feel the same. He's always so nice and I'm really cynical. I wish I knew how he felt.

~RoxanneVL Mar 13, 2012 Hobbyist Writer

I will say almost for certain that he likes you, especially because he called you cute.
Don't worry about "not being good enough for him" or whatever, the fact that you are friends shows that he does care about you, at least in some way.
I suggest either flat-out telling him that you like him, or if that's too scary (and I know that it can be) either employ a friend or drop some serious hints or create situations that make it super easy for him to ask you out (like, talk about what you're doing over the weekend or what movies have come out lately).

~KKBossa Mar 14, 2012 Hobbyist General Artist

I hope that's true cuz I really like him

I just feel like he's such a great person as he's so nice and sweet to me and I complain a lot and use him like a cushion when I cry and tease him all the time.
Flat out telling him is too scary. I don't have the guts. My friends and his friends are different ppl but the whole serious hints thing is what I'm doing now (he's such a dope I doubt he notices) but I never thought of the situations thing. Thanks

~RoxanneVL Mar 14, 2012 Hobbyist Writer

No problem, best of luck!

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~Eliza-Earl Mar 11, 2012

It sounds like you found an amazibng guy. My advice would be downt throw yourself at him. That can be alittle scarey for guys. SO relax and take it slow. Other than that congradulations

~KKBossa Mar 12, 2012 Hobbyist General Artist

haha I'm not the throwing myself type

More the wish to myself he'd say something to me type. I'd say something myself but I don't want to ruin our friendship since he's been a great friend to me and I don't want to make that awkward.
So I'm just hoping things work out.

~Eliza-Earl Mar 13, 2012

I can sympathize. The guy i like found out that i liked him earlier this year. It was awkward for two weeks because he asked me to help him ask my friend to homecoming

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~Kurosaki224 Feb 10, 2012 Hobbyist General Artist

I am in desperate need of some advice please. I think I might be falling in love with by best guy friend and I am freaking out and have no idea what to do. I haven't told anybody because HE is the one I always go to talk to about my problems and is pretty much the one person on this planet that I can open up to without being afraid of being teased or judged. We have been friends for 3 and a half years, but he moved two years ago. We still keep in touch, but not near as often as I think we'd both like. I kind of want to ask him what he thinks of this, but if I'm just missing him as a close friend and not something more, I don't want it to make our friendship weird! I feel so stuck, any advice would be helpful!!!

~Eliza-Earl Feb 20, 2012

I can sympathise. I went through something similar earlier this year where i had been liking one of my close guy friends. It went on for a year or so before one of my friends told him. He asked me about it then after a week of awkward ness {he thought i was mad at him because he asked me to help him ask one of my freidns to homecoming (she said yes at first then changed her mind and told him to ask me talk about awkward) and i thought he was mad at me because she changed her mind} but after that week everything went back to normal.

So apart from the near irrelvenacy of my own story here is my advice. There is nothing wrong with telling him you miss him. Obviously you guys were really close. So if you really want to go ahead and tell him that. I would leave out the part about falling in love with him though. Unfortuantly that tends to make things awakward for a little while. See how he responds to just you missing him. And who knows mabey if he didn't move to far away you guys can hang out still (I am asumming he isn't more than an hour away or so) "You never have to unsay anything you never said in the first place"
Start small and go from there

Hope this helps

~Kurosaki224 Feb 20, 2012 Hobbyist General Artist

Thank you so much for your advice! And I actually have already told him that I miss him. Whenever we talk now, a lot of our conversations end with both of us saying we miss talking to and seeing each other everyday like we used to. Not just me, he says it too! That is one of the big indicators that made me start to think he might ever so slightly like me back. It really makes me happy to know that he misses me too (: But as much as I'd like to hang out with him again, he moved waaaaay farther than an hour away. He moved from Chicago to San Francisco. -_- I really do thank you for your thoughts though

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